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Pain is Inevitable, Suffering is not

Pain is Inevitable, Suffering is not

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Pain cannot be avoided but we can be more aware of how we behave and act like victims.

When we are being the victim of ourselves it means you are choosing the story of victimhood, this can be a normal way for some to react to a situation.

And is often something that we are not conscious off until we are ....

Many will retreat into themselves and hide from whatever it is that and make a decision it has hurt us, it can be anything from our husband not paying enough attention to us, which we say means they don't love us enough. To not getting something done, means that we are not capable. Or having a disappointment that gets turned into, everything is wrong...

The 'hurt, damaged, unsure' Inner Child is easily affected by even the smallest setback, which then gets turned into something major, something that gets built into bigger proportions...

This is because the energy of this Inner Child is exactly that, its a child's energy and it is unable to make loving, caring and sensible decisions...

You have the ability to draw upon deeper resources, the energy of your deeper divine heart, you can do this if you step out of being a victim...
If you stop believing in your victim story and especially stop adding to it.

Being the victim means you are the one that is hurting and something or someone is to blame for how you see yourself. In my workshops, many people understand this concept and yet are still unwilling to take responsibility for how they feel, behave or act and sometimes they are unable to react in any other way than as a victim...

We can all fall into this trap...

Attention to your own awareness is the key to understanding your victim story...

Only you can discover why you choose to remain a victim and what it is you will need to give up to stop being a victim...

Attention to self-care, self-love and a willingness to be FREE is the answer...

The old saying, you can take a horse to water, yet you cannot make it drink, is the perfect analogy for the victim energy.
Is this you?

Linda Bretherton
www.lindabretherton.com

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